What Boys Learn About Consent In Locker Rooms Sports

That’s why it inevitably comes as a shock when a boy, a teammate, or a gym class hero realizes that, for reasons of vanity, carelessness, or pride, he lacks insecurities and starts in with the towel-snatching, ball-flicking, and general grabassery. From the perspective of the boy white-knuckling his terrycloth and praying for his pecs to swell, this locker room agitator is to be envied and feared. He models a sexual confidence and social swagger to which most boys can only aspire....

January 2, 2023 · 7 min · 1491 words · Dorothy Ballentine

What Daughters Wish Their Fathers Said To Them When They Were Little

1. That I Had Real Worth and Value I wish my Dad had told me that my real worth and value lie outside of my appearance. — Christine, 49, California 2. What A Good Man Is Even though my father was shy and humble, I wish he had talked to me about men and specifically how to find someone like him. I yearned to talk to him and ask for his advice during my divorce, but of course I couldn’t....

January 2, 2023 · 7 min · 1467 words · Samuel Halsey

What Is Conduct Disorder In Children Fatherly

Psychiatrist and author Dr. Lea Lis has seen conduct disorder in kids frequently in her medical practice. She notes that there is help for parents. But it’s necessary to understand what conduct disorder in children looks like and how to treat it. What is Conduct Disorder in Kids? Conduct order isn’t something that develops all of the sudden. Instead, it consists of a confluence of conditions that have intensified over a period of time....

January 2, 2023 · 3 min · 628 words · Marcus Nick

What It S Like To Support A Family As An Opera Singer

Between performances abroad with famed orchestras in front of presidents, Brownlee makes the most of his home life in Georgia with his wife and kids, a 3-year-old daughter and 4-year-old son, who is autistic. That makes the constant travel, which Brownlee’s career demands, even more challenging than normal, but he handles it like he handles the high “F” in “Credeasi Misera” — with aplomb. How many times a week do you get home for dinner and do you ever cook?...

January 2, 2023 · 5 min · 900 words · Janice Gravois

What S The Healthiest Fish For Kids

In short, relax and feed the kids fish. “I don’t think people should be as scared of fish as they are,” says Emily Oken, a professor of population medicine at Harvard Medical School. Oken was one of several scientists who assessed the risks and benefits of children eating fish and published the results in a 2019 report from the American Academy of Pediatrics. Their recommendation: fish should be part of a child’s healthy diet, period....

January 2, 2023 · 5 min · 1021 words · Raymond Smith

What To Do When Only One Of You Wants More Kids

1. Relax And Wait It Out “As families typically have one child at a time (unless they have twins) this is not a pressing issue that needs to be solved right away. There are usually other issues impacting such a decision. If the relationship is not in the best place, there may not be a desire for one spouse to have additional children. If a particular child is difficult, it may lead one parent not to want to have any more kids....

January 2, 2023 · 6 min · 1093 words · Jill Deal

What To Know About The Childcare For Working Families Act

What this all points to is that a solution to the high cost of child care may be closer than ever before. But is it? To gain some insight into the, Fatherly talked to A. Everette James, a public policy expert at University of Pittsburgh, about the Child Care for Working Families Act, Elizabeth Warren’s plan, and which one might actually succeed. Let’s talk about The Child Care for Working Families Act, which was just re-introduced in the Senate after it stalled in 2017....

January 2, 2023 · 9 min · 1708 words · Anthony Johnson

What To Say To A New Dad And What Not To Say

“Congratulations!” is always a good. “How’s everyone doing?” is usually appreciated. After that, it’s not as clear because you have no idea which version of New Dad you’ll be getting. “Expect a range of conflicting emotions,” says Dr. Joshua Sparrow, child psychiatrist and director of the Brazelton Touchpoints Center. But here’s a safe guess. There’s uncertainty that comes with the responsibility for a new life, since, “You can’t replicate it until you do it....

January 2, 2023 · 5 min · 937 words · Jimmy Fisher

When Should Parents Stop Playground Fights Among Kids Rarely

“Parents, or any adult, should always intervene if there is bullying going on,” says Holly Schiffrin, a psychology professor at the University of Mary Washington and co-author of Balancing the Big Stuff: Finding Happiness in Work, Family, and Life. “Bullying means repeated acts intended to harm another child, especially if there is a power differential – the perpetrator is older or bigger.” And, Schiffrin adds, if there is any physical danger, of course, parents should swoop in and protect their child....

January 2, 2023 · 3 min · 598 words · Carole Hearn

Why A Frida Mom Commercial Was Rejected By The Oscars

The commercial starts off with a baby crying and a mom turning on the light in the middle of the night. The mom slowly gets out of bed, wearing the disposable underwear hospitals give to people to wear after birth. Mama settles her baby back to sleep and then slowly heads to the washroom. Mom uses a hospital standard peri-bottle to ease the sting that going to the washroom can have on a just-birthed and likely sore and stitched body....

January 2, 2023 · 4 min · 643 words · John Riley

Why Did The Baron In Dune Want To Kill Paul S Dad

That question is: Why did Baron Harkonnen (Stellan Skarsgard) want to kill Duke Leto Atreides (Oscar Isaac), father of Paul Atreides (Timothee Chalamet)? Here’s the answer. Spoilers ahead for Dune: Part One. The seemingly obvious answer is that the ghastly-looking, corpulent and devious Baron wants to control the entire universe. Step one: departing Arrakis and installing the Duke and the Atreides clan on the planet, with its valuable spice, endless sand, massive sandworms, blue-eyed Fremen and broken-down equipment....

January 2, 2023 · 3 min · 476 words · Samuel Kaczmarek

Why Do We Hate The Sound Of Our Own Voices

Yet I’m surprised by how difficult these sessions can be for my patients. Many become visibly uncomfortable upon hearing their voice played back to them. “Do I really sound like that?” they wonder, wincing. (Yes, you do.) Some become so unsettled they refuse outright to listen to the recording – much less go over the subtle changes I want to highlight. This article is republished from The Conversation under a Creative Commons license....

January 2, 2023 · 3 min · 498 words · Charles Mcleod

Why Jewish Family Arguments Sound Like Jewish Family Fights

My people, from assimilated Americans to frocked Hasidim, have no concept of what it means to sit and eat in silence. Yiddish, the pidgin language of European Jewry, contains twice as many words for “argue” as “happy.” WASPs nibble overcooked steaks to a soundtrack of tinging silverware; we debate dinner with our mouths full. There’s a unique cadence to the Jewish argument, captured by Arthur Miller, Larry David, and countless pretenders....

January 2, 2023 · 6 min · 1211 words · Marin Crow

Why Kids Have A Favorite Parent And What To Do About It

When a child prefers one parent over the other, it creates an imbalance that makes life harder and one of you feel like an outsider. Should this exist, it mustn’t accepted and steps need to be taken to ensure the family unit is, in fact, a unit. But before you can fix anything, you have to answer an important question, says Carl Hindy, a clinical psychologist in New Market, New Hampshire: “Why is one parent the favorite?...

January 2, 2023 · 5 min · 1046 words · Shannon Branson

Why Pass Fail Grading Should Be The New Normal For Schools

As much as we’d like otherwise, the world simply can’t operate as it did before. Our current circumstances have to be taken into consideration. This makes standard letter grading tough to justify when students aren’t able to operate within the normal, structured school day. It also makes it more difficult for students who don’t have access to technology or find themselves having to assist in childcare for younger siblings. The most difficult thing is that there is no clear consensus on how to proceed....

January 2, 2023 · 5 min · 1014 words · Clementine Mcauliffe

Xeriscape Landscaping Will Save Your Yard Water Bill And Bank Account

“In hot and arid climates in particular, water is a precious resource,”says Naima Green, partner in Blue in Green Gardens. “Using valuable drinking water to irrigate lawns and northeast-inspired temperate gardens, can be wasteful and not environmentally friendly.” On average, home owners have a lot of bad lawn-watering habits. Not only do they tend to water their lawns for too long, but they also do it too frequently: In most cases, it is not even necessary to water a lawn every day....

January 2, 2023 · 6 min · 1089 words · James Casali

You Can Rent The Home Alone House On Airbnb You Filthy Animals

Kevin’s brother Buzz is hosting the house on Airbnb, with the promise that for just $25 a night, you can have “a cozy holiday scene with twinkling lights and a perfectly trimmed tree awaits you at the McCallister ‘castle.’” “This holiday season, we’re playing by my little bro’s rules, so feel free to eat junk food, watch rubbish on TV, borrow my dad’s aftershave and choose your own adventure with a legendary battle plan as a guide,” Buzz wrote in the official listing....

January 2, 2023 · 2 min · 249 words · John Houston

90S Toys That Are Worth A Lot Of Money Today

RELATED: Toys From The ’70s That Are Worth Way More Than You Think “The thing that usually goes for a lot of money are the toys that are either short packed, like when interest in the franchise waned and figures were not mass produced,” says Mark Bellomo, a toy-collecting expert and author of several books including, most recently, The Ultimate Guide to Vintage Transformers Action Figures. “It’s rarely the action figure that’s worth a lot of money — it’s the accouterment because that’s what makes the figure complete....

January 1, 2023 · 6 min · 1119 words · Peggy Underwood

A House With A Clock In Its Walls What Parents Need To Know

If you’ve seen the trailer, you’re aware of the creepy old-timey dolls and carnival figurines that attack the 10-year-old protagonist Lewis Barnavelt. There’s even one that looks like a devil. Unless your child is a burgeoning horror fan at the age of 5, it’s probably not a good idea to take them to see this movie. The film is based on a 1973 book by John Bellairs that was illustrated by Edward Gorey....

January 1, 2023 · 2 min · 365 words · Allan Orr

Comedians In Cars Getting Coffee Jerry Seinfeld Is A Funny But Grumpy Old Man

But while the show remains popular, the most recent season has faced a bit of backlash, with some critics accusing Seinfeld of transforming into an insensitive, out-of-touch jerk who vaguely rails against PC culture while victimizing comedians. The Washington Post said that Seinfeld is “coming into a rightful and more acerbic crustiness at what may very well be the wrong moment for that sort of thing.” And they are hardly alone, as several publications have called out Seinfeld for becoming a crusader for offensive comedy and even becoming borderline nihilistic with his disregard for anything “woke” or socially relevant....

January 1, 2023 · 4 min · 725 words · James Venable